Press release from Our VOICE:
February is Teen Dating Violence and Awareness Prevention Month. This issue affects not just teens, but their families, friends, and community as well. Teen Dating Violence is comprised of four types of abuse: sexual violence, physical violence, psychological aggression, and stalking. Source CDC.gov
Our goal is to raise awareness about teen dating violence and help them build strong, healthy relationships. The work done at Our VOICE helps all ages, including teens who are dealing with TDV and who don’t talk about it with anyone. We are here for all teens who need support due to sexual violence.
Some Statistics:
- Nearly 1.5 million teens have reported being intentionally hit or physically harmed by their romantic partner.
- Teens who experience abuse while dating suffer long-term effects, including substance abuse, depression, eating disorders, and violent behavior of their own.
- 33% of adolescents experience some form of physical, sexual, verbal, or emotional abuse while dating.
- In the US, 25% of high school girls have been abused physically or sexually. Teen girls who are abused in this way are 6 times more likely to become pregnant or contract a sexually transmitted infection
- Eight states in the US do not consider dating violence to be domestic violence. Because of this, these adolescents and 20-somethings are not able to file for a restraining order.
- Abusive, violent behavior often begins between 6th and 12th grade. 72% of 13 and 14 year olds are ‘dating’.
- Only 33% of teens ever confided in anyone about the abuse.
- Teens hesitate to report abuse because they don’t want to expose themselves.
Statistics courtesy of DoSomething.orgWhat can you do? Talk to teens!
Everyone can make a difference by reaching out to young people in simple ways. As we interact with teens in our lives each of us can take a stand against teen dating violence by:
- Discussing the Warning Signs of dating abuse. These include:
- Checking cell phones, emails or social network without permission
- Extreme jealousy or insecurity
- Constant put-downs
- Explosive temper
- Isolation from family and friends
- Making false accusations
- Constant mood swings aimed at you
- Physically inflicting pain or hurt in any way
- Possessiveness
- Telling someone what they can and cannot do
- Repeatedly pressuring someone to have sex
Courtesy of BreaktheCycle.orgCreate a positive connection to the issue. Talk about the characteristics of healthy teen relationships. Include things such as:
- Love is Respect and…
- Setting healthy boundaries
- Communicating
- Trusting
- Honest
- Equal
- Enjoying time away from each other
- Making mutual choices
Courtesy of LoveisRespect.orgTalk about how the media portrays healthy and unhealthy relationships. For example, many popular movies, TV shows, commercials, books, and magazines portray stalking as romantic or harmless when it is actually very dangerous.
Get involved even if you don’t have a lot of resources – an information table, classroom discussion, or school announcement can get the conversation started.
And if you need help, contact the Our VOICE 24-hour crisis line at 828.255.7576. Or text VOICE or VOZ to 85511.
Black History Month
February is also Black History Month. This important tradition’s origins began in 1926, when the Association for the Study of African American Life and History sponsored a national history week to raise awareness regarding the African-American and Black community’s contributions in U.S. history. The second week in February was chosen because it coincided with Frederick Douglass’ and Abraham Lincoln’s birthdays. The event inspired communities across the nation to create their own awareness events and grew each year. Subsequently, the week expanded to a month in 1976 when President Gerald Ford officially declared February as Black History Month.
Our VOICE believes every day should be an opportunity for us to raise our consciousness about the African-American and Black experience in the United States. This past year has shown us that as a nation there is still much work to be done to create a country where indeed, Black lives matter. Black lives continue to be impacted by violence at higher rates than their White counterparts. Over 1 in 2 adult Black women have indicated being a victim of rape, Black teens and young adults are at higher risk of experiencing the most harmful forms of violence, and Black people are 3.23 times more likely to be killed by the police.*
For Black History Month, we encourage you to learn about and lift up Black experiences in our country and local community. We also encourage you to become a co-conspirator in ending racism and all other oppressive behavior that contributes to disparate impact of violence on Black lives.
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