Me & You, Us, Forever

Movie Information

The Story: A recently divorced Christian man becomes fixated on his girlfriend of 30 years ago. The Lowdown: Even allowing for the bare-bones independent-production problems, this is simply a painfully slow character study in which people talk endlessly yet do very little.
Genre: Faith-Based Romantic Drama
Director: Dave Christiano
Starring: Michael Blain-Rozgay, Stacey J. Aswad, Hugh McLean, Jenna Bailey, Sandi Fix, Terry Loughlin
Rated: PG

What exactly can be said about Dave Christiano’s Me & You, Us, Forever? It has a certain local interest in that it was made in Hendersonville and Greenville, S.C. Technically, it’s not a bad-looking movie, which is to say it’s in focus, the camerawork is competent and the lighting is fine. At the same time, there’s little in it that you’d call visually interesting—and it doesn’t help that nearly all the “action” takes place in the blandest, least interesting settings imaginable. However, the blandness of those settings and the overall film complement each other perfectly. I don’t know when I’ve ever seen a less interesting or more dramatically neutered movie.

The whole pitch is a little wanting and the execution more so. Christiano based the movie on his own life—making a strong case against autobiography on the screen. The movie centers on Dave (Michael Blain-Rozgay), the 47-year-old Christian victim of a divorce he didn’t want. He’s a paragon of virtue (as opposed to his barely glimpsed ex-wife, whom he characterizes as having “dated a lot of men” since the divorce, which I guess is code for being promiscuous). His virtue is evidenced by the fact that he—along with the rest of the cast—spends a lot of time talking about Jesus. (Yes, I know this is a “Christian” film, but I’ve been to church services that were subtler than the “preachification” on display here.)

His divorce has caused him to think back to his first love—a girl named Mary (played in flashbacks by Kathryn Worsham)—and the regret he feels over having broken up with her when he was 17. (It never occurs to him or much of anyone else that 17-year-olds are neither known for savvy choices, nor are they terribly likely to reflect the adults they’ll become.) Indeed, the movie starts with him ferreting out an old high-school yearbook in a library (just why a library in the film’s nonspecific South would have a yearbook from a school in New York is never explained) so that he can look at her picture—and wistfully run his fingers across her image. (I realize that this is a trip down memory lane, but there’s still something a little unsettling about a 47-year-old obsessing over the image of a 16-year-old girl.)

This one scene pretty much nails down the film’s positively funereal pacing—all of which is aggravated by Christiano’s amateurish inability to cut to the meat of his scenes. It never occurs to him that Dave only needs to pull the yearbook from the shelf, and the film could cut to him sitting at the table looking at it. No, Dave has to look and look for the book, find it, walk over to the table, sit down etc. The pattern constantly repeats itself throughout the film with people doing such fascinating things as parking a car, getting out of the car, locking the car, walking across a parking lot, going into a building and so on. Then again, this is about as close as the movie comes to action. A lot of the movie consists of Dave “thinking” and “remembering,” which means that Mr. Blain-Rozgay strokes his chin and stares into space every few minutes.

Otherwise, the movie’s consumed with talk, talk and more talk. Should he go see Mary 30 years later? Shouldn’t he? What are the moral implications of paying a call on your presumably now-married high-school girlfriend? Is the pretty woman (Stacey J. Aswad) from his Christian divorce support group becoming more than just a friend? Should she? Shouldn’t she? The real question is will you care? My guess is you won’t. I’ve no doubt that Christiano is completely sincere in his attempt here, and I applaud anyone who can get a film made on this level of production, but the results are simply not very good. Worse, they’re just plain dull. Rated PG for thematic elements.

About Ken Hanke
Head film critic for Mountain Xpress from December 2000 until his death in June 2016. Author of books "Ken Russell's Films," "Charlie Chan at the Movies," "A Critical Guide to Horror Film Series," "Tim Burton: An Unauthorized Biography of the Filmmaker."

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6 thoughts on “Me & You, Us, Forever

  1. I’m a Christian filmmaker in Georgia, and while I support Dave Christiano in his effort to bring Christian-themed films to the cineplex, I have to agree with the Xpress reviewer.

    I saw the film last night, mostly to see the performance of Karla Droege who plays the lead female’s sidekick, “Nicki”. Ms. Droege, one of the brightest lights to recently migrate from the Southeast acting scene to Los Angeles, sparks the only life that this tepid film has to offer.

    I’ve seen all the brothers Christiano (Rich & David) films over the years, and while they are experts at wrangling genuine theater releases for their features, they refuse to help the genre of “Christian Film” grow out of its 1960’s Billy Graham Worldwide Pictures roots by ignoring what people go to dramatic movies for in 2008: good storytelling that portrays real people reaching beyond themselves to overcome obstacles.

    This film makes the valid point that it’s best to avoid retreating into your idealized past after Change rocks your life. God has given us today to live in — make the best of it. But this is a one-note story s-t-r-e-c-h-e-d to feature length, the pacing is achingly slow, the acting (with the exception of Ms. Droege) positively zombie-like, and the settings — as mentioned in the review — so bland and empty as to distract from the seemingly endless series of long conversations that take place in offices, coffee shops, meeting rooms and lobbys. There is so little actual movement in this film that passing a Viewmaster around the auditorium would have achieved the same effect.

    What’s the point of making Christian-themed films if nobody wants to go see them?

    Dave Christiano wants to lend Christian values to Hollywood movies. Fine. Begin by sitting down with a yellow pad and a Netflix subscription and learning what consitutes a well-told film story. Start with “Bella”.

  2. The trailer is one of the goofiest that I’ve ever seen. Endless panning shots of him just… thinking. And thinking. And pining perhaps?

  3. Ken Hanke

    “Dave Christiano wants to lend Christian values to Hollywood movies. Fine. Begin by sitting down with a yellow pad and a Netflix subscription and learning what consitutes a well-told film story.”

    This is what surprises me most about the film. I’m hardly the target audience, so I didn’t expect to be persuaded by the movie. I’m also used to a certain pokiness about this sort of movie. But I was really surprised — given the filmmaker’s list of other TV and film projects — by the truly uncinematic editing. It doesn’t take watching many movies to catch on to the idea that real-time is rarely your friend, and that no one wants to watch a character go through the mundane bits of his everyday life. There must be 10 to 15 minutes of footage of useless walking or driving that could have been cut.

  4. Josh Glasgow

    I can’t blame you for drifting in and out during this film, but the library scene at the beginning is later shown to actually be taking place in New York, and not the unspecified South.

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